April 04, 2005
I Can Take a Road That'll See Me Through
I was on the road again over the weekend, this time going to New Jersey with my "Scuba Buddy", Al. I deposited him in Philadelphia to be with his beau, and headed over to visit a place I'll never be again.
I rolled into my dad's driveway at around 10pm. A front was coming through, chilly wind and rain blowing. I put on my rain jacket and walked around back. The real motivation in going down was to clean out my dad's house. It is being sold in less than two weeks, and I had a lot of papers in my closet still.
Moving my stuff out was one part depressing, one part invigorating. My dad got the house shortly after my parents divorced, and it was kind of nice having both of my folks within walking/cycling/driving distance (they lived 10 minutes away from each other). The downside, of course, was a constant nagging guilt every time I was at my childhood stomping ground -- I was in a constant state of worry that one parent would feel neglected when I didn't choose their house as my base for Jersey visits. In a sense it's quite fortunate that one moved...trips to the folks can be a little more compartmentalized. And we won't even go into the merits of having a parent living in New Paltz.
Later Saturday evening I met up with some old-skool friends for a birthday party. It was originally intended to be one of those pagan circle things, but continuing rain made us abandon any hope of having the fire pit operating. Instead it was cake, wine, and catching up on old times.
The rain really didn't stop the whole trip down. The Delaware and Schuykill Rivers flooded, closing Route 30 back to Philadelphia. It made for some interesting detours trying to pick Al back up on the way. That and an unexpected illness -- I woke up Sunday morning feeling like I weighed 500 pounds, my whole body aching, and my sinuses feeling clogged -- made me want a slightly faster departure than I had originally intended. After a 14-hour nap Sunday night, most of the symptoms have gone away. Roads really do wear you out, and I've been on them a lot lately. That shows little chance of changing...







by reid
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by reid
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